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I am not in a relationship

Master Kosen – Published on April 6 – love-and-sexuality

Question

I am not in a relationship and have hardly ever been in one. I have no children. I am approaching 40. I experience all this as a failure, a sign of a flaw, of not having managed to build something. I do not know how to avoid remaining bitter or ashamed too.



Thank you.


Anonymous

Master Kosen’s answer

Better to find the right husband at 40 than the wrong one at 20.

Kosen


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