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When a woman leaves you

Master Kosen – Published on October 26 – love-and-sexuality

Question

Stéphane, you once told me: When a woman leaves you, it is a koan. I hadn’t asked you anything or even said anything about it, but those words have stayed with me ever since. The koan remains unanswered. I tell myself there is no answer, except perhaps to say: That is how it is; this wound will remain until it transforms, a little like in fairy tales when a monster turns into a pure marvel. The wound remains but gives off a sweet fragrance, a gentleness. It blooms, red like a blood-colored poppy. What do you think?

Anonymous

Answer from Master Kosen

Nothing.

Kosen


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