Question
I am looking for the man of my dreams so I can start a home and see my children. But I am still single. I am sad, and although I keep hoping, I feel weary and worried. How long will I remain this way?
Anonymous
Answer from Master Kosen
In the meantime, think about fulfilling yourself as a free, independent individual before wanting to make yourself dependent on a man and a family. You will then be able to love them as equals, from a place of freedom, and have something to offer them beyond a relationship of dependence. Hurry, because you have little time left before meeting him. Don’t waste this precious time waiting for him.
Kosen