Question
I have just had an exciting encounter with a wonderful person,
an adventure that was unfortunately too short for my taste, but perhaps
the time was not right for what I wanted: a “love” story. In one month,
she taught me a lot about the person I let others see. She shook me up,
so strongly, in fact, that my thoughts are tumbling over one another. It seems I am
indeed very often this observer now. Yet I am powerless,
or perhaps complacent, in the face of this stream of thoughts, because I fear I have
wasted too much time sleeping, refusing to see anything of myself. In short,
I am impatient. May I ask two questions that really concern me?
Should the one who observes masks and wounds seek healing, or
is he not really affected by them himself? Is it only my
ego that is wounded, or the observer?
Also, based on your personal experience, can one hope to have a
love relationship without having truly found or realized oneself yet, without
harming the other person, without heading straight for failure?
Thank you for this website and for the time you give us.
Respectfully,
Emmanuel.
Anonymous
Answer from Master Kosen
He is not affected himself, which is why he must assert himself as true nature and, in doing so, heal himself.
Kosen