Question
I try to develop my life with love, patience, positivity… peace.
I have often set aside my personal interests for others (parents,
children, husband, etc.), although no one asked me to, and I often led
my life that way with great pleasure and also a certain naivety.
Now things are different. I often feel alone, misunderstood by my
husband, and above all without an intimate, loving connection.
How can I process my feelings of loneliness when I give and feel I
receive nothing?
Loving without asking anything in return has become very, very difficult,
since I expect at least a little smile… and when that does not come,
what should I do?
Thank you for your time.
Best regards,
Cécile
Answer from Master Kosen
Take a trip alone or with a friend and forget your husband for a little while. After all, you will go into your coffin alone. Isn’t leaving a little like dying? It may put certain things back in perspective.
Kosen