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I cannot manage to love

Master Kosen – Published on November 17 – love-and-sexuality

Question

I have been single for four years. I have met men, but I cannot manage to love or be with someone. I get scared every time I think about living with a man. They all seem like male chauvinists who want to take away my freedom. I do not want to stay alone, so please help me.

Anonymous

Answer from Master Kosen

You’re right, we’re all macho men and you’re all macho women, and life as a couple is unbearable 90% of the time. But when it works, it’s so good.

Kosen


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