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Finding a spiritual man

Master Kosen – Published on March 14 – love-and-sexuality

Question

Master, I cannot find a spiritual man who experiences and wants
sexuality in a tantric way, with feeling, as I like it, rather than as
a meaningless release. I see a disconnect in the other person, and they do not
go deeper. My question is: am I looking in the wrong environment? I
move in circles that have nothing to do with me because I do not know where to go to
meet people with more depth. I feel lost in this regard. I am a yoga teacher, and
all my classmates in the training program are women. There are no men like that
in the circles I move in. I want simplicity, sharing and feeling with another person. Am I
asking so much? Sharing a book, a walk, a movie, a sunrise, experiencing
sexuality deeply… I am not suffering because I have not found my love,
but sometimes I feel a longing in this loneliness. Thank you for your time!

Anonymous

Answer from Master Kosen

It is the same for me.

Kosen


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