Question
I asked a question last night, and I would like an answer in words.
May I tell my personal story?
Is it good to share one’s personal but real story, the truth!!?
What is the purpose of the ABZD?
Furthermore, I don’t want answers to arise in reality. Dignity,
OK, but life rather than death!
I wish this for everyone on earth.
I am in love with a woman who rejects me for many reasons I
don’t know. Is that good? I have a suffering that keeps rising up. Please,
I too ask you for help, with your greatest
wisdom.
Sylvain.
Answer from Master Kosen
I ask you: “If this woman accepted you, how would you treat her after six months or a year?”
A man is pitiful when rejected, but once he has won, he no longer remembers how weak he was before his desire.
For now, you love her for yourself, and apparently that doesn’t suit her.
If you truly love her and she doesn’t need you, then true love means leaving her alone. If you manage to love her truly, perhaps she will understand that she has found a man worthy of the name.
Kosen