When a member of your family, unconsciously and only because of his karma, i.e., despite the fact that he's a being who keeps good , scarce, but deep because of blood ties, relationship with us. . . This hurts us very much, up to the point of not willing to live because one feels he must lose life; how do you solve this? I've tried many ways, but eventually, it's always the same, I surrender and accept. But it has to change, because it's very harmful. Could you help me?
Answer from Master Kosen
By practicing zazen, by being ordained and by putting some distance between oneself and one's problems, one can much lower family karma. However, theconscious or unconscious behaviour of some of our relatives may have hurt us deeply and might affect us for a long time. It can then be useful to go into therapy to unveil and express the actual root of the problem.
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