Question

I have a love who does not love back. How do I deal wit this ?


Answer from Master Kosen

It is impossible that someone you love sincerely without asking
for anything in exchange does not love you back, but be sure to
make the difference between love, desire and desire of being loved.
A proverb of the Aymaras Indians in Bolivia says : You give love,
you don't ask for it.

Mondo On the same theme : Love and sexuality

How can I know I'm in love?

I'd like to be brief but I cannot help thanking you for your teachings in South America, which have been recorded in video. I know that my question may sound common, but I still ask it, since I cannot find any answer: how can I know if I still love my partner? Camilo
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Sinner

Hello Master Kosen, I got question that bothers me very much and I'm somehow blocked because of it. I did bad things Im ashamed of. Bad things I mean it is in relation to girls, relationships, my lust, desires, foolishness. My ex-girl recently broke up with me because of my mistakes I made - and Im in deep despair. Is fact that she broke ...


Homosexual couple.

I'm homosexual and living with somebody for 5 years already, we have plans for the future, including artificial insemination. I'd like to know what this is all about for you and what you think about such things
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